Adoptive Parent Truths Refused
The child adoption industry has sanitized the unpleasant and factual realities of adoption which is directly reflected in adoption marketing. Yet the attempts by professional social workers to educate potential adopting parents falls on deaf ears, yet the adopting parent's refuse to believe that adopted child issues will happen to them, on the contrary adoption issues are guaranteed to manifest. The "psychological inflexibility" among potential adopters is especially true in regard to the population of professional therapists seeking to adopt a child where the educational material about potential adopted children's psychological problems, experiences and statistically outcomes, are ignored through self deception. The problem with educating potential adopters is that they become emotionally motivated, that adoption is the solution to their problems that they can't see beyond their perception of solution. Where adoption related disappointment is a guarantee that their hope in a perfect adopted child will come crashing down. The adoptive parent's need to look like, act like and appear like a normal family is a delusion of the selfish, who adopt a child to fulfill their needs where they are inadequate, grieving a child's death or infertility's emotional trauma that is not cured by adoption. The realistic view that child adoption is not normal, people that intentionally abandon their offspring are not normal and adopted child rearing is not the same as bearing offspring. Just because something is done does not make it right, as child adoption is an immoral practice of stealing the offspring of others, erasing the child's identity and forcing your identity on the adopted child will never change his biology but will cause him emotional, identity and behavior problems. The adoption industry has created wealth for the traffickers, made biological offspring into orphans and created psychological trauma for the child and mother separated...all the carnage to fulfill one psychologically unstable woman. Yet in reality she will not be satisfied, or fulfilled by the token adopted child, she will turn to other hobbies that provide her ego with it's needed attention.