Rejecting Intimacy Adoptee
The consequences of Primal Wounding forced on newborn infant Adoptee's creates predictable manifestations in adopted child and adult adoptee's psyche of fearing and rejecting intimacy.
The natural and spontaneous feeling of "being controlled", "being smothered" and "being obligated to stand strained against our will and take the adopted mother's forced unwelcome affection"....The adopted child feels: "we feel forced, coerced", smothered and violated.
The adopted child/adult adoptee's "personal space around our body is our safety zone", our imaginary protective shield and spiritual circle of protection against all that have violated our dignity, our birthright and our childhood, by using us for their selfish demands. Those that are feared most are the adoptive mother and her family, women that perpetuate and allow all childhood related abuse, our community and our society of feared humans that are directly responsible for using us to profit, rejecting our mother and ourselves inspired by profit, supply and demand. Church people, ministers and priests that hypocritically judge a newborn infant based on his parent's marriage certificate. As humanity is not to be trusted based on our lived experiences where we were persecuted as guilty and forced to suffer the psychological prison of adoption life sentence.
The reality for adoptee's extreme life experiences that began without committing murder, but guilty of being innocence in infancy where our life is worth less than the average unwanted animal being euthanized for existing. The society's disregard of adopted children, the euthanized animal received an end to it's suffering at the hands of humans and was treated far superior to any biological child's existence in the psychological torture of adoption.
"Adoption Experts" keep coming up with therapies, treatments and psychological destroying drugs to ruin the adopted child's functioning brains. The profit is the motivating force for adoption experts that perpetuate adopted child's suffering with medical treatments while they continue to deny the adopted child's trauma.
The placating experts and therapists bow to the adoptive parent's money and demands to remove adoption from the psyche of the adopted child. To fix the adopted child by drugging them into a state of zero resistance, so the adoptive mother can hug the child without the child being repulsed. The adopted mother demands to hear the adopted child say the scripted words that she wants the child to say, but there is no authenticity to those empty words "I love you".
The truth is that our society broke us with adoption, that caused the unwanted consequences to the adopted child's functioning and that "IS OUR TRUE NATURE NOW and FOREVER".
Being rejecting of other's attempts to touch and give affection, and not wanting physical contact with others is the Adoptee's primal nature...
"The only true feeling inside the adopted person that is concretely trusted and relied on is the feeling of being offended by physical, verbal and psychological intrusion of others.
By Nancy Verrier