About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Tuesday, June 13, 2017

Adoption Bondage is Psychological Tyranny

ADOPTEE RAGE!

Adoption Bondage is Psychological Tyranny
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The adopted childhood is ignorance, where adopted adolescence is knowledge.
When the adopted child lives in tyranny they know nothing else as it is their familiar. To escape adoption fog of psychological dominance, we emerge with the awareness of having lived it. 

To escape adoption tyranny, "Adoption Fog" and turn your back on those who still are chained to the walls of adoption to suffer their lives in silence as we refuse to speak the truth.

Do we adoptee's who have escaped the american style adoption submission not have a duty to those currently held in adoption's psychological and physical bondage?  

We Adoptee's have a duty to each-other, the only group of "our own psychological people" that represent our repression, conditioning to prefer isolation and distancing as feeling safety from being out of target range.
As the "adopted" are the only real human group that can comprehend other adoptees, empathize and share the experience of our agony and suffering. 

We may believe that reunion might instantly repair the years of scar tissue growing like toxic glue within our bodies. We may come to the point where we reject the opportunity to suffer through building new relationships with the ones we are severed from. Adoptees may feel discouraged at aiming their painful brokenness, energy and efforts, only to assign blame to our broken biological families for not being able to fulfill us with the instant gratification that we demand. 

As we arrogantly abandon our biological abandoners before they can again abandon us. Never realizing the magnitude of their suffering that is quite different from our own suffering as we have no ability to emphasize with what they experienced as we experienced our wounding near birth, and our biological parents and family experienced their wounding as cognitive adults, two extremely different traumatic experiences.....We must understand this fact!  

As adoptees come full circle yet again in our habitual adopted brokenness, Where we sit quietly in our familiar victimization and pity that we perpetuated against ourselves. The only persons that can comprehend the adoptee's plight is other Adoptees, not our biological family that experiences a different curse.

Biological reunion takes time, effort and will buckle with the adoptee's assumptions and unrealistic demands to be healed, as they have their own wounds to tend to in whatever way they can cope. When we meet in the middle without arrogance, blame or any of the negative American personality traits that dominate our society, we will see the hope bloom in the form of patience.