About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Saturday, June 3, 2017

Adoptee's Perception of Mother's-Day


The ADOPTEE'S Perception of Mother's Day

Mother's Day The Servant Adopted Child Serving the Queen Adoptive Mother

The birthdays, holidays and other Hallmark mandated events where Adoptee's are expected to "pay tribute" to deserving others with buying gifts and card giving. The reality for adopted child or adult Adoptee is that we dread these days as it reminds us and screams in our face that we are "adopted". We are less than normal, we were subjected to emotionally torturous and unnatural existence where we live everyday at the mercy of our adopters. At birth we were stolen from our birthright and conscripted into a war against our true nature to endure false lives that we have no control to repair what was taken away our natural childhood with our clan and kin. Adoptees have disoriented sense of cause & effect, right & wrong, cause & consequence as we are forced to lie about who we are, which is morally wrong. All children are born with moral intuition of right and wrong, to live a lie causes the Adopted Child distress that is opposite of the natural child's innate sense of truth. 

There are no marked spaces on the calender's dates so we can be prompt in sending our friends and family birthday cards, as adoptee's subconsciously block out the idea of birthdays and holidays as it screams that we were "abandoned on our day of birth. The birthday is to be avoided at all cost, to avoid being reminded that we are forever scarred and marked with the adoptive family's brand. The burning brand of the adoptive mother, our scorched flesh has left it's mark forever on our psyche that can never be removed.

Mother's day is the painful reminder for ADOPTEE'S of what was stolen from us that can never be returned, our natural childhood. Mother's day is a miserable and dreaded day for Adoptees, that becomes especially worse when we become mothers. The Misery-day (mother-day) is not about us (adoptees or our REAL Mothers) It is an entire childhood of being forced to celebrate the cruel and indifferent adoptive mother that took us away from our real mother, that treated us with scorn and shame for being adopted and her hatred toward the adopted child for not being her REAL biological child. 

The way adoptee's feel about this suffocating hallmark-holiday does not change in biological reunion, the feelings become worse and remind us of what we were forced to endure throughout the adopted-childhood when we have a real mother out there that is our mother that we desperately want to know and celebrate. The biological mother, the adopted child and the adult adoptee grow to hate this holiday more with each passing year as we, our feelings and our emotions don't count as this hallmark holiday was not intended for bastards or biological mothers, it is only intended for the socially acceptable mothers that warp mother's day into the day the servants and slave children worship and idolize the self-defined queen or receive her token strike in the face or her especially designed torturous punishment for feeling or looking sad on mothers day. This holiday is not for anyone except the narcissistic adoptive mother.