The "Embarrassment" of Being Adopted,
Adoptive Mother Refuses to Respect Child Privacy.
This article from adoption.com is slanted toward the adoptive parent's feelings, appeal and ignores the primary person who is embarrassed by the chronic telling of the adoption story.
The adoptive mothers that proudly tell their adoption story over and over to the point that any stranger could recite it back at them. To the adoptive mother this is her story and she own it!
She has chronically recited this story so many times over to the point where the story is now an automatic response, a "bad habit" that she does not think through the consequences to the adopted child.
The article written for the benefit of the adoptive parent: