Adoption Forgiveness Dirty Laundry List
To approach forgiveness as adult adoptees, we must confront the perpetrators and perpetrating actions against the adopted child.
The first underlying principle is the religion of the adoption industry that began our extraction from who we are. The society that tore us from our origins, labeled us illegitimate bastards, the society that labeled our biological mother, father and family unworthy.
The society that comprises the gossiping neighbors, gossiping church members that acted as judges, policing our community to instill fear in our family that believed they would be scorned and punishment by their churches.
Our biological family that was more concerned with being embarrassed by our mother's pregnancy and birth, that they banished us into the foster-care system as paper orphans.
Our biological mother who was forced to relinquish us against
her better judgement. And the aftermath of trauma that plagued the mental health of our mother as she left the hospital alone
to experience the magnitude of scorn that was promised not to occur if she gave us away. The psychological torment that followed her everyday from our birth and extraction that never left her, that she tries to distance herself from but consumes her every waking hour.
The adoptive parents that are responsible for providing the demand that feeds the adoption machine to steal offspring for more worthy couples. The cruel circumstances that adopted child endures by the rejection of the stranger family. The lies that we were forced to believe the fairy tale of adoption propaganda. That we were forced to participate each birthday by the stomping on our biological mother's perceived grave. The forced smile, the assimilation, the lost identity and the lost reality that is forced on the adopted child. The social rejection, the mental rejection and the lack of protection of our delicate psyche that is destroyed by adoption pretense. The mental and legal isolation from our true identity and the monumental doubt about it all that we are forced to accept without question. Our self-hatred for accepting surrender in order to survive this paradox and our participation for acting the adopted child role to appease our adoptive parents by providing them with our entertainment.
The reality that they society and adoptive parents, took our perfectly acceptable existence and turned us into who we are not
is the systematic murder of our true selves and our true identity.
This list of transgressions perpetrated against the innocent nature of an adopted child that is carried out long after the 18 year adoption possession sentence. That has preyed on the fragile vulnerability of the adopted child and adult adoptee that has been stripped of their life and forced to accept a false adopted-adapted life that does not belong to the biological child. That which we have been subjected to against our true nature is compromised the healthy individual with these incredible flawed psyche that we adopted perpetual children are left with as adults. This is where we start to inventory the transgressions against us to some day forget, to deny or attempt to someday comes to terms with by seeking to forgive them all. We must take baby steps as the enormity of these perpetrated murders of our innocence weighs heavily upon our souls. Blame is easy but to move past these cruelties and focus on the perpetrators flawed nature, we see these crimes against a child and his mother are all based on fear, jealousy and desires to take from vulnerable, young and poor individuals as they are easy prey to the machine that extracts the souls and mutilates for profit.