Society's Narrow View of Adoptees
The stereotype that is always projected on me "the adopted child" that
is lucky to have been saved by such a heroic adoptive mother. Although
here has never been any life threatening events or dangerous situations
to escape from, the adoptive parent is automatically elevated to an extreme social status by simple association to child adoption.
The illogical public's circular reasoning insist on the expectations that the adopted child be grateful, obedient and be honored to wear the "adopted child role". The public strongly relies on the adopted child stereotype to support their adoption related beliefs and provide psychological continuity to their social expectations. When an adoptee's personal narrative deviates from this social norm, confusion, suspicion and disbelief at the adopted person is a normal thought process. The average person can not understand why the adoptee would lie about their wonderful life and angry feelings and thoughts are provoked toward the adoptee instead of empathy and understanding. The adoptee is labeled a liar, mentally disturbed and is seen as committing blasphemy to intentionally dishonor to their adoptive parents.
In truth society prefers and demands their projected image of harmony and purpose and gratefulness to the reality of the adopted child's lifelong grief.
Outside looking in, they see only what they choose in adoption where they force this projection and label on to the adopted child forever expecting the "adopted child role" stereotype therefore perpetuating it. If the adopted child reacts outside of the expectation, they are seen as suspicious, not valuable and their voice will be violently silenced by the majority. The foundation of the institution of adoption is based on submission, guilt and shame. The three principles of psychological manipulation that keep an entire population of people submissive and silent. The only way to brake the psychological norms of society is to dissent, to denounce and to speak out against child adoption's oppressive form of mental slavery and control. The status quo is to remain compliant and voiceless...embracing the injustice that holds us forever in captive servitude.