Adopting Parents Resent, Resist, Discount & Deny the valuable Resources Taught in Adoption-Parent-Education Courses
This common unrealistic expectations of adoptive mothers, combined with their fantasy of the parent-child relationship that does not reflect the reality of developmental trauma in children.
The adopting mothers #1.) RESENT the required adoptive parent training (in adoption-process-education)
#2.) Say that the adoption educational content "is trying to make them change their minds",being mainly focused negative adopted child behavior and worst case scenarios.
#3.) REFUSE to accept the real facts that the child they are adopting may display the behaviors taught in the adoptive parent training course.
#4.) The adopting mothers that REFUSE to accept or believe that the negative behaviors displayed by their adopted child are the same behaviors that were taught in the adoptive parent training. #5.) The adoptive mothers say that they were not properly educated by the required adoptive-parent-education training courses, and were not prepared for the extent of the adopted child's behavior or the behavior's impact on the adoptive parents.