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Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
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Wednesday, May 25, 2016
The Six Stages of Normal Biological Parenting of their Offspring
ADOPTEE RAGE! The Six Stages of Normal Biological Parenting of Offspring ___________________________________________________
The six stages of parenthood (Galinsky, 1987):
1 - The Image-Making Stage
During pregnancy, parents "form and re-form images" of the upcoming birth and
the changes they anticipate. This is a period of preparation.
2 - The Nurturing Stage
Parents compare image and actual experience during the time from baby's birth to toddler's first use of the word "no" (about age 18 to 24 months). This is a period of attachment and also of questioning. Parents may question their priorities and also how they spend their time.
3 - The Authority Stage
When the child is between 2 years and 4 - 5 years, parents decide "what kind of authority to be." This is a period of developing and setting rules, as well as enforcing them.
4 - The Interpretive Stage
Stretching from the child's preschool years to her approach to adolescence, this stage has the task of interpretation. In this period, parents interpret their own self-concepts as well as their children's. Parents also are concerned with interpreting the world to their children.
5 - The Interdependent Stage
During the child's teen years, families re-visit some of the issues of the Authority Stage, but find new solutions to them as parents form "a new relationship with their almost-adult child."
6 - The Departure Stage
When children leave home, parents evaluate not just their offspring's leave-taking but also the whole of their parenting experience.