The Outsider Adopted Child's Foreign Personality
One of the main "Cruelty Factors" in child adoption, is the psychological impact on the adopted child- being raised by a foreign personalities in a similar family group, their non-familiar faces, bodies and non-predictable personalities. The psychologically isolated adopted child is forced into living in an alien adoptive family void of any biological clues.
These biological family groups rely on the genetic similarities of their blood bonded family group's personalities, characteristics and biologically driven behavioral traits , that remind them daily of who they are, their blood-bonded connection, Who and Where they belong.
The biological mother knows the appearance, personality and temperament of her child offspring and can see herself in all three aspects within her child.....the child offspring sees the same in his/her biological mother, father, grandparents...etc.
The mother of an adopted child can not see herself in any way within the adopted child., The adopted child knows that the adoptive mother is not her real mother, the child knows that the biological mother that is missing. The adopted child can't gain any clues from the foreign adoptive mother, No appearance, No personality, No similarity of characteristics exist for the adopted child, which causes confusion, isolation and the forever feeling of not belonging that will follow the adopted child through life.
Biological similarity is necessary for optimal human development and potential, that is a lifelong deficit for
adopted children and adult adoptees.