Adoptive Parent's Lying and Deception
The deception by parents is a universally manipulating tactic used to gain selfish effects, at the expense of the child's trust.
The adoptive parent's intentional verbal deception directed at the adopted child is motivated by the parent's needs, wants and desires. The adopted child is manipulated to the worst extent with lies that cover up who the child truly is. The adoption industry deceives adoptive parents with outdated psychological tactics that are proven to cause more harm than good.
Phrases and marketing slogans that sugarcoat the unpleasant adoption related facts and transform the terrible truth of being abandoned by the biological mother into words like "chosen" to describe how happy the child should feel. Yet the adopted child's reality is not made happy by the word chosen, when in fact the word chosen means to the adoptee "chosen to be abandoned", "chosen to be an outsider" and "chosen to suffer from a false identity". The adopted child will pacify the adoptive parents by pretending and acting out the good "adopted child role" to please their adoptive parents and survive the 18 year ordeal.