Maternal Affective Disorder in Adoptive Mothers
Adoptive mothers that have experienced multiple miscarriages, stillbirths or lack of conception are mentally scarred by their experiences and develop
a demanding and desperate need to get or buy a ready-made baby that they believe will satisfy their inability to produce their own biological child.
The psychological problems created by their lack of pregnancy is never addressed or grieved my the adopting mother.
Due to the lack of post-natal hormones that equip the birthing mother with the biological tools to bond, intuition and long-term care giving of her offspring,
the adoptive mother lacks these necessary biological motivations to sustain a normal biological parent-child relationship.
The "old wives tales" that adoptive mothers tell themselves, tell others and try to believe, that their love for the adopted child will be enough...Is a dangerous and false assumption that the adopted child will always suffer from throughout their lives.
The reality of the adoptive mother is that the "love will be enough" will always and surely fail her and the adopted child. As the adopted child has their own identity, their own real parents and heritage that does not belong to the adoptive mother, but the adoptive mother will do all she can to keep the truth and the reality from the adopted child forever.