Abused Adopted Child's "Developmental PTSD"
For adopted children that suffer chronic and prolonged abuse and neglect at the hands of adoptive parents....
DEVELOPMENTAL Post Traumatic Stress Disorder follows adult adoptees throughout their lives.
What society believed to be the solution (adoption) to an unwanted child's life becomes that child's detriment and compounds the adopted child's already fragile psychological well being.
To be born, abandoned and adopted into a false adoption pretense that does not benefit the adopted child but forced to endure their childhood under hostile, intolerant conditions.
The adult adoptee has so many developmental milestones were not met, life lessons were not learned and hatching an escape plan becomes the first independent task the adopted child has ever aspired to survive the disastrous childhood.
The adoptive parents forced the illusion of adopted childhood and in their fantasy of the family's public views they forgot to parent the child.
The most disturbing aspect of adoption is the adoptive parent's parenting fantasy, finances, and the picture perfect home that professionals deem acceptable, never take into account the psychological stability of the people applying to buy a child.
Adopting parents complain that the system in place is intrusive and disrespectful, however in the real world the application process and classes are a fraction of what is really needed to weed out the psychopath parents that will go to a third world country to get a kid, if they are told "no".
Developmental PTSD is INTENTIONAL, real and crippling of the mind of a child's potential. The suffering we feel never goes away and is with abused adoptee's forever. No amount of counselling, therapy or drugs can erase the abusive adoptive parent's impact, as it is always with us throughout the adoptee's life. The intentional breaking of a child's will can never be glued back together.