About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Monday, September 14, 2015

Not Allowed to Have Personal Emotions

ADOPTEE RAGE!

Now Allowed to Have Personal Emotions
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Most psychologically maltreated adopted children were not allowed to express their emotions, know what their emotions feel like and were forced to suppress their emotional feelings to be submissive.

When an adopted child has done what is expected of them...to be the compliant adopted child.

The adoptive parent's expectation that the adopted child act in a certain manner and produce the "illusion of gratefulness", costs the adopted child current and future emotional well-being.

By swallowing their emotions throughout childhood, the silence that stood in place of the screams still remains alive within us and is transferred to a new form. The energy that it takes to hold in these loud screams from adopted childhood violations, injustice and humiliation that is directed inside of our psyche, destroying our ego...To finally render the adopted child's spontaneous childlike ways defeated, over thrown and all hope is disarmed. As the divine spark of humanity that only a child can possess, becomes soiled, used up and aged long before their little bodies can grow up.

The root of the adopted child's psychological insult is perpetual, created and recreated daily by the domination of the adoptive mother's narcissistic ego.
All of a childhood's paced out changes are arrested by the adoptive parent's need to control their environment, of which the adopted child is an unfortunate pawn, always in the way and has the extreme potential to annoy, anger and embarrass the parent within their safe controlled environment.

Due to the non-existence of the adopted child's birth, the adoptive parent does not experience the adoptee as a child, nor will the adopted child grow into an adult, only being seen through the eyes of the adoptive mother is crippling to the adopted child's psychological health. The adopted child will never experience age appropriate freedoms, challenges, milestones or stages in childhood changes, nor will the adoptive mother acknowledge these stages of human development.

The expectations of the adoptive mother is her personal choice of life continuity. To have her desires, wants and needs met when she demands actions, performance, comforting, ego stroking and inflating. The adoptive mother demands a great cost to the adopted child for her deliberate charitable involvement in adopting a child. Due to the costs to her financially, privacy, happiness and energy she expects to be paid back with interest in the form of owning the child's body, soul and mind. Due to the excessive costs to the adopting mother, she demands silence, compliance and submission from her charge.
She expects to be made to feel good, to be served and to be worshiped by the adopted child that she bought and paid for.