Adoptive Parent's Intentionally Ignore Adopted Child's Trauma
Due to the fact that the adoptive parent has already "saved" their adoptive child from their own life. So that any past, present and future problems that the adopted child experiences simply are non-existent.
The adoptive parent that in the past or is presently abusive, neglecting or maltreating the adopted child currently, is not recognized by the adoptive parent as they refuse any responsibility for the quality of care that they give. The excuse is that they are doing the "best" that they can, which is never a good enough excuse for the psychological harm intentionally caused by the adoptive parent that the adopted child will carry the defense mechanisms through life....being mistaken for the adoptee's fractured personality.
Because adoptive parents and society does not recognize or accept the responsibility for the harm that they have personally inflicted on the adopted child, it is simply blamed on their flawed genetics, bad biological parents and "mental problems".
Although the truth of the matter is that the submissive adopted child and the dominating adoptive parent dynamics cause psychological ramifications throughout the life of the adult adoptee based on their adopted childhood treatment by their adoptive parents behavior toward the adopted child.
Many normal people can recognize their own poor behavior and contributions to their own relationships that end in failure. Raising someone else's child as in child adoption creates defensive mindsets that complicate the way a person regards another in their care. The experience of babysitting someone else's child where the adult disregards the minor child as a temporary childcare situation that is quite different when regarding your own flesh and blood child whom you love unconditionally.
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