The Purchasing of Adopted Childhood
"The Childhood" is what is being bought in child adoption, the adoptive parent is purchasing the time when the child has no recognized civil rights in the United States.
The time of childhood when the adopted child is at the mercy of his exploiters, agencies and adoptive parents.
The child without a legal voice: Is forced into adoption bondage at birth until age eighteen, where a child is forced by the adoption industry laws into child adoption bondage and into the adoptive parent's Indentured Service and forced into action to play the part of the adopted child's role.
Adopted children have no legal or U.S. citizen rights
or human rights to defend themselves against verbal, physical, sexual abuse and trafficking, or psychological abuse and childhood exploitation.
Adopted children are forced into the lives and choices of strangers that jump through the bare minimum paperwork that sanctions the adoptive parent's as legally eligible to be adopt unwanted children.
The U.S. system that governs child adoption within the child adoption industry's eligibility standards can be avoided all together or omitted by going around the system, not electing to register and going outside of the broken system with ease by utilizing other avenues in the adoption industry including the international adoption and simply not applying for child social security registry, not applying for the child's citizenship and avoiding state and federal paperwork to fly under the radar as in most child adoption trafficking, where the child simply does not exist on paper.......and no one knows or questions.
Buying adopted children is like purchasing a pet or jewelry- a temporary desired object that is intended to satisfy the desires of the buyer....in adoption to satisfy the desires of the adoptive mother that must have and demands that her needs be met.
The childhood purchase is the worst story ever realized for the adopted child, as the child's innocence becomes their greatest flaw in believing
the adoptive mother's attention is genuine, and in infancy all babies are precious and cute but they are damaged by being taken away from their biological mothers that causes the primal wounding that has a long list of side effects. The primal wounding is also an ongoing psychological problem that can not be healed by the most smothering of adoptive mothers.
The smothering adoptive mothers get their feelings hurt when the adopted infant-child does not trust her. The stress caused to adoptive mother by the adopted infant's resistance, makes the adoptive mother angry, indifferent and in retaliation she will distance herself emotionally from the adopted child.
The rejection game.....is the rejecting adopted infant that stiffens when the child is held by the adopted mother's forced holding. The adoptive mother becomes angered at the unwanted adopted child rejecting her, so the adoptive mother rejects the adopted infant and the cycle of rejection goes round and round for years, ending in two adult people that hate each other.
Due to the adoptive parent's ignoring the child's needs, their primal wounding, the adopted child's biological family, and the adopted child's long held-inside pain, suppressed hurting emotions and being ignored, all feelings of experience that the adoptee holds deep inside by pressure for eighteen years, we should expect explosions of anger or diamonds formulating under such intense pressure and time.
Yet there are never any diamonds for the adopted child, only the exhaustion from holding in such intense pain and sorrow over the years for too long.
The 4 places Adult Adoptee's are Found:
The adopted child that emerges from the indentured service of their adoptive parents is either still bound to the adoptive parents, living in the Adoption Fog of Denial., or Is estranged from their adoptive parents, in mental hospitals, prisons,and committing suicide.