The Controlling Adoptive Mother's Spying Tactics
The changes from adopted child innocence in young childhood into the cognitive aware adolescent causes controlling adoptive mother's to suspect their young adult adopted child to be engaging in age appropriate behavior, which is not tolerated by the dominating adoptive mother, as she will not allow you to grow up. The deceptive adoptive mother will begin rummaging through your drawers, papers and reading your diary, listening to your tapes and voice recordings, looking through your dirty clothing and inspecting your dirty under-pants. Listening to your phone calls and spying on your every move.
The adoptive mother knows that your up to no good and she is determined to seek it out. In today's electronics, she will read your emails, scan your pages and snoop through and read what your friends
say and do as well.
The adoptive mother can't stand the fact that she might lose control over you and will make up shit if she can't find anything wrong to punish you and make you feel as though you are being watched.
These narcissistic adoptive mother's can't stand the fact that at some point you will run away because you can no-longer tolerate her intrusive snooping and twisted behavior. The most disturbing is when the adoptive mother makes up people who tell her things about what you are doing to blackmail you into believing that people are watching you that will report back to her. The intrusive adoptive mother has no life and her only driving force is to make the adopted child's life miserable and intolerable until you run away to freedom. Where there is no dominating adoptive mother to look through your laundry or spy on you ever again.