The Brainwashing of Adopted Children
When a child is born and severed from his mother at birth the primal wounding occurs as consequence, that can never be repaired even by adoption reunion.
When that same primal wounded newborn is adopted
by adoptive parents, the adoptive parent attempts to establish the child's new identity by erasing the child's identity and any links to the child's real identity, biological parents, biological ancestry and culture.
The adoptive parent's name the child and as the adopted child grows he adapts as an outsider and plays the role of the adopted child using the chosen behaviors, attitudes, likes and dislikes that the adoptive parent's approve of.
The adoptive parents are manufacturing the adopted child as they go along, and the adopted child knows no better than to do what he is told.
The adoption game is a brainwashing game where a child from one family becomes the child of another family, adhering to the qualities, culture, religion and preferences acceptable to the adoptive parents.
The adopted child believes that they are the adopted child personality of the role they are playing for the adoptive parent's benefit.
In childhood ignorance the adopted child is simply doing and acting out the role to please and bring pleasure to the adoptive parents, as the adopted child does not know that he has his own life, his own family, his own culture, religion or ancestry that belong to his own personal biological chain.
The truths that separate the adopted child from his adoptive family are kept hidden, are not allowed to be accessed or spoken and must be kept secret when the adopted child discovers his alter ego-personality that is based on his own biology and ancestry, that is the opposite of the adopted child role that he assumes in front of his adoptive parent's puppet show.
The adopted child role is a brainwashing of the truth of who the child truly is. That is incompatible with the adopted child role.
When the adopted child reaches adolescence the fog of adoption begins to clear as the once child now sees adoption for the truth of it's deception, lies and secrets.
The Adoptee feels ambiguity toward continuing to play the adopted child role in the adoption drama as a farce to his true self. The adult adoptee that is beginning to understand what adoption means is confused and astonished by living a lie to entertain his adoptive parents or to live in the truth that is termed "acting out" which is the more healthy than the complacent adoptee.
To continue the charade the adoptee must play the adopted child role, to exist in truth the adoptee must be true to himself which is the opposite of the adopted child role, living the lie to please the adoptive parents.