The Factual Differences Between Biological Raised Child and the Adopted Child
The many adoptive parents that claim they are offended by the obvious FACT that raising adopted children
is far different than bearing and raising biological offspring. The adoptive parent's that deny the obvious, also deny the facts of adoption that the adopted child has another set of parents, siblings, grandparents and extended family of which the temporary lost adopted child still exist in the minds, hearts and the biological ancestral family tree where the adopted child will one day claim his position within this genetic family tree.
The adoptive parent's that engage in pretending that there are no differences negatively impact the adopted child's psychological health and well being, as the adopted child must go along with the adoptive parent's charade of adoption pretense.
They don’t always feel the difference, ignore the obvious differences and more importantly, they don’t want to see the differences. This denial of the differences that the public can see but the adoptive parent's deny that these differences exist, makes the adopted child question the sanity of their adoptive parents, question the adoptive parent's motivation for living these lies and the adopted child feels ambiguity toward the factual truth which has become a questionable stand by the adoptive parent's denials of facts and truths.