About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Friday, May 22, 2015

Adoptive Mother Using Parental Alienation to Manipulate the Adopted Child

ADOPTEE RAGE!

Adoption and Parental Alienation
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Adopted child are common targets of biological parent's parental alienation. The psychological manipulation including brainwashing the adopted child to force the adopted child's allegiance to the adoptive mother. The adoptive parents, more specific is the adoptive mother who acts as the perpetrator of such adopted child brainwashing, to ensure her comfort that the biological parents are perceived by the adopted child as "bad", abandoning and Inhuman monsters that the adopted child should fear, to force the adopted child's psychological allegiance to the adoptive mother. The adoptive parent's intentional use of parental alienation is a cruel brainwashing tool and psychologically manipulating behavior that cause
the adopted child ambiguity, false trust in the adoptive mother's intentions, distrust of those targeted by the adoptive mother's whims of intolerance, anger and repulsiveness. Because the adoptive mother's messages are never solid, never consistent and flexible in the fact that her targets are always changing. The adopted child's mixed messages are distorted and confusing as the adopted child realizes that it is only a matter of time where the adopted child becomes the target of her wrath or is a constant target.
The psychologically compromised adoptive mother   is seen by the adopted child as not reliable, overly emotional and uses emotions to manipulate the adopted child as time goes on.  The adoptive mother's inconsistent parenting proves to the adopted child that the adoptive mother will eventually turn on the adopted child, and eventually ostracize the adopted child, as the adoptive mother has forced all other family members and friends away. When the adoptive mother has driven all adults away, she will depend on the adopted child for emotional support that any child should never be responsible for the emotional support of their parents.
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Adoption and Parental Alienation By Judith Land

Are you a victim of parental alienation? Parental alienation is a pathological alignment dynamic that is most common when competing adults indoctrinate children by jealously denigrating other targeted parents and grandparents. When a divorce occurs, child custody, and the dividing of property is assigned by the court based on accusations by competing parents angrily assigning blame and jealously claiming fault of their partner. Adoption creates a similar social dynamic when adoptees are pressured to chose between competing parents.
When I was a child, my adopted mother Rosella maliciously stated her opinions about my birth mother with the morally corrupt intent of disgracing and demeaning her to make her own authority and disposition seem more worthy. “Your poor attitude and impulsive nature is psychologically and genetically inherited from your biological parents. You are predestined to fail because you are a self-fulfilling prophecy emulating your birth parents’ original sins and bad behavior.” Her spiteful, angry words were powerfully toxic and continued burning into my consciousness long after they had been said.
Link to full article...........
Link:https://judithland.wordpress.com/2013/04/19/parental-alienation-by-judith-land/