ADOPTEE'S Searching The Meaning Of Life
The newborn infant that is intentionally subjected to separation trauma, Adoptee's prolonged suffering of isolation and the resulting in The Primal Wound, Constitute the lives of the adopted child's emotional tolerance of suffering.
The plight of the adopted child is living the temporary life as someone other than who we truly are. We pretend to be a member of someone else's family.
The adoptive family is a temporary family that does not belong to us. Although the adopted child is emotionally blackmailed, triangulated and psychologically manipulated to believe we are beholden, indebted and emotionally obligated to the adoptive parent's.
The adoption related "Saviors" is a culturally created position of prestige for those who take on charity to the extreme in securing unwanted,legally parent-less and legally sanctioned orphans as human cargo for sale to financially eligible applicants in the adoption industry. The adoptive parent saviors, who "saved" as Jesus has saved us from our own true nature. The saviors "save us" adopted children from ourselves, our lives and the adoption industry created "plight" of being legally available, legally orphaned and forever marooned to the forbidden Island of the adoption industry's "No Return".
Yet the truths about the adoption industry's coercion, illegal and deceptive nature of this corrupt institution that takes a perfect newborn child and destroys all links to his humanity, destroys all assumptions of innocence and turns the newly born into the epitome of sinister corruption in the eyes of god. That labels a child bastard, the worthlessness of being born Illegitimate and the discards of society that label a mother's coveted offspring an unwanted undesirable and the philosophy of a somehow flawed newborn child. Even though the mother did not choose to have this child legally severed from her tightly held arms, the coercion, detestable psychological manipulations and the commonplace legal wrangling that the ignorant and temporary problematic have no choice but the forced submission to the institutions of domination. The adoption industry promotes the psychological raping of the innocent to benefit the highest bidder in the game of financial domination in the U.S. where the poor will always loose out to the dominant class's financial warfare, where morality benefit's the wealthy and empathy for a mother and her child is nonexistent.
As the truth of the adoption industry's corruption and it's bedfellows the Christian right's allocation of religion to support adoption laws for the chosen marketing of human cargo constitutes the immoral practices of the adoption industry's black market morality.
When the adopted child gains the cognitive knowledge of the adult adoptee who exit's the adoption fog of deception we begin to see the truth of the coercion that made us victims to an immoral industry in human childhood sales.
Adoptees coming out of the adoption fog begin to see the truth for themselves of being used, pretending and perpetuating the lies and secrets of our adoptive parents. Truths that vilify the innocence of our biological parents that are broken and beyond repair from the adoption's intentional damage to the young, poor and vulnerable pregnant mother's who sustained emotional rape at the hands of those they trusted. The lives torn away leaving us as emotional islands with no connections to the past, present and future. We adoptees are set adrift without the courage to sustain us as we share in our real parent's constant and un relentless suffering that can never be healed, even with a miracle we are condemned to exist as the puppets for which we were purchased, that now hold no meaning except to serve as an example for how to destroy two people for the benefit of one.
The adoptee's search for meaning begins at the search and reunion place, but from there the search for life meaning can never end, as the search can not yield the answer to meaning in life for those victims stolen from their own destiny.