About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Saturday, May 23, 2015

Adopted Child's Subjection To Chronic Stress


Adopted Child's Subjection to Chronic Stress

Beyond being born, relinquished to the adoption industry, adoption facilitators intentional negative influence, force and manipulate the cognitively compromised biological mothers to abandon their newborn children. 

Resulting in the infant's traumatic injury, experience,
and the suffering of grief that the severing bond injury brings to the forced abandoned child. 

The horror experienced by the newborn infant, and the horror experienced by the infant's mother of being stolen, denied and forced away from the arms of their biological mothers causes the primal wounding 
of stolen newborn baby.  

The primal wounding will never be healed, and the psychological injury will always be present in the adopted child's life, behavior and is constantly remembered in the child brain's limbic emotional memory and present in the adult adoptee's daily stress response system. 

The adopted child's pre-verbal limbic and emotional memory record all negative actions, activity and assault. The limbic (unconscious) emotional memory is used to assist (the unconscious mind) the individual by reminding them of past assaults that are compared to current assaults for the purpose of survival.

Beyond the adopted child's primal wound, is the 25% of adopted child population that are exposed to daily, chronic stress, stressful toxic environments where the child experiences a perpetual state of "fight-freeze-flight stress response" perpetrated by their unstable, dysfunctional and narcissistic adoptive parents. 

The adopted children that are subjected daily to the toxic stress live in a constant state of anxiety and are expecting dramatic displays of violent behavior by their adoptive parents as the norm of their particular dysfunctional family dynamics. 

The dysfunctional adoptive home is the environment that causes the adopted child's defense mechanisms to exist in a constant state of hyper vigilance. 

The adopted child's constant state of hypervigilance helps the child to psychologically anticipate, predict and prepare for the adoptive parent's next succession of verbal attacks, physical violence, punishments and sexual assaults on the adopted child. 

In the adopted child's psychological adaption, the ability to predict the on coming displays of their adoptive parent's fighting, violence, debauchery and personal attacking the adopted child....having the ability to expect the expected adoptive parent's brutal or childish bad behavior, gives the adopted child the feeling of some control.

The adopted child's hyper vigilance enables them to predict the unpredictable behaviors of the adoptive parents by observation and the parent's obvious abusive patterns that are predictable and repeat in cycles.

The adopted child's constant and predictable exposure to the adoptive parents unstable, violent, and poor self conduct behaviors constantly activates the adopted child's stress-response-system.  

The adopted child's overuse, hyper vigilance and subjection to adoptive family environmental violence, constantly activates their stress response system that fills their body with stress hormones that are not released due to the constant activation. 

The build up of cortisol and other stress related hormones causes devastating effects on the adopted child's body such as chronic infections, headaches, stomach related illness, allergies and asthma to name a few. The stress induced hormone chemicals flood the body, compromise the present system and permanently damage the human immune system. 

Childhood development is compromised for adopted children subjected to daily dysfunctional adoptive family violence. The adopted child is constantly sick, absent from school, learning is compromised and so on. When adopted children become adults the psychological and physical damages from childhood stress become compounded. Illness and disease are what the adopted child has to look forward to in adulthood if they are not sent to prison, mental hospital residents or suicide statistics.

As the adopted child was used for their childhood innocence, discarded as adults and society had no more uses for the unwanted children who eventually become again society's burden in old age illness.