About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Friday, April 3, 2015

The Plague of Conflict of Interest in the Adoption Industry and Adoptive Parents


The Plague from "Conflict of Interest" and COI Opinions That Pollute and Distort the Adoption Industry and Adoptive Parents

The personal opinions and Conflict of Interests plague the adoption industry and the adoptive parents that supply and support the adoption industry.

The adoption industry and it's funding, supporters
and political bias fueled by adoptive parent's drive to buy children.  Adoptive parents are the oil by financing is the oil that greases adoption industry machine. Without the demand for children by adopting parents, there is no supply to drive the funding that create the adoption industry's cycle of supply, demand and profits from adopting children.

The problem with the adoption industry is the lies, selective information and deception that is provided by the denial that the adoptive parents live. The blatant refusal of the truth in child adoption is the insurance policy that the adopting parents buy into the secrets and lies that will render the adopted child without identity and a sure bet that the biological parents will never find their lost child.

Adoptive parents keep the secrets intact by speaking for adopted children in studies, and refusing any honesty about the real psychological states and emotional problems are denied. The adopted child is the pawn in the adoptive parents quest to own their own adopted pet child.

The conflict of interest is when the adoptive parent's personal emotional problems speak out about their wonderful and special adoption arrangement, that was created out of the mother and child's loss. The mother and child are the two parts of the adoption triangle that are legally silenced to keep them powerless, subdued and silenced.

The bias in adoptive parent's opinions are based in their fear of loosing their adopted child. Their adopted child is conditioned by fear of abandonment and the fear of being returned to the adoption agency. The adopted child is manipulated and forced to believe they are their new name and new identity.
The adopted child grows in cognitive awareness to eventually understand what has been done to him. The adopted child must keep with the adopted child's role and act their part in order to remain compliant.

When adoptee's reach maturity they are expected to remain in the adopted child role for the rest of their lives, which causes conflicts in the adopted child's identity and the adopted child identity.

Adult adoptees are a rich resource to have survived childhood adoption, yet in adulthood are expected to remain silent about their true identity and need for biological family continuity and reunion. The adult adoptee opinion is invalidated by society and labeled angry adoptees that have no voice in society.

 In general, an opinion is a judgment, viewpoint, or statement about matters commonly considered to be subjective, i.e. based on that which is less than absolutely certain, and is the result of emotion or interpretation of fact.
What distinguishes fact from opinion is that facts are verifiable, i.e. can be objectively proven to have occurred. An example is: "United States of America was involved in the Vietnam War" versus "United States of America was right to get involved in the Vietnam War". An opinion may be supported by facts, in which case it becomes an argument, although people may draw opposing opinions from the same set of facts. Opinions rarely change without new arguments being presented. It can be reasoned that one opinion is better supported by the facts than another by analyzing the supporting arguments. In casual use, the term opinion may be the result of a person's perspective, understanding, particular feelings, beliefs, and desires It may refer to unsubstantiated information, in contrast to knowledge and fact.

conflict of interest (COI) is a situation in which a person is involved in multiple interests (emotional, or otherwise), one of which could possibly corrupt the motivation of the individual or organization.

The presence of a conflict of interest is independent of the occurrence of impropriety. Therefore, a conflict of interest can be discovered and voluntarily defused before any corruption occurs. A widely used definition is: "A conflict of interest is a set of circumstances that creates a risk that professional judgement or actions regarding a primary interest will be unduly influenced by a secondary interest." Primary interest refers to the principal goals of the profession or activity, such as the protection of clients, the health of patients, the integrity of research, and the duties of public office. Secondary interest includes not only financial gain but also such motives as the desire for professional advancement and the wish to do favours for family and friends, but conflict of interest rules usually focus on financial relationships because they are relatively more objective, fungible, and quantifiable. The secondary interests are not treated as wrong in themselves, but become objectionable when they are believed to have greater weight than the primary interests. Theconflict in a conflict of interest exists whether or not a particular individual is actually influenced by the secondary interest. It exists if the circumstances are reasonably believed (on the basis of past experience and objective evidence) to create a risk that decisions may be unduly influenced by secondary interests.