The Adoption Triangle
The adoption triangle, like the Bermuda Triangle is a hostile and dangerous place where people disappear.
The Adoption Triad is a poor choice of terminology to represent what is attempted to convey.
A more realistic term that identifies only three of the many players in the whole of the adoption game aspects of adoption terminology is the use of the term "the Adoption Triangle". A more realistic term that includes all of the people participating in the adoption game is "the adoption octagon", Although like the adopted child are kept out of the loop to avoid dissenting opinions and possible legal actions.