About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Thursday, February 5, 2015

Adopted Childhood's Lack of Genetic Mirroring & Empathy


The Motivation of Genetic Mirroring Is Empathy

Within the natural maternal drive, process of genetic mirroring is motivated by the maternal mother's "self" that she can see herself inside of her infant offspring is the action of the mother's human empathy toward her "self" that she recognizes inside of her offspring. The self recognition that the mother can identify in her offspring infant produces the feeling of empathy and that empathy she feels toward her offspring grows as the infant matures, eventually into the parent's prototype in their child.

The adopted child infant comes as a stranger's child that is not biologically connected. The adoptive mother can not see themselves and can not naturally identify with the adopted infant, which can not create the natural feelings of empathy in the stranger's child. As the adopted child matures the the adoptive parent becomes further distant, divorced from any natural empathy feeling to the child that is constantly changing into their biological parent's prototype. 

The adopted child is truly isolated from the natural feeling of empathy because they have no empathy and can not see themselves in their adoptive parent.
The adopted child exists without genetic mirroring, that is necessary to develop a natural sense of self by seeing themselves in the faces of their biological parents. The adopted child does not develop a true sense of self in their development years, therefore can not develop a true sense of empathy, not being mirrored by their own genetic parents.  

The adopted child is developmentally arrested and can not master any of the normal stages of self development. The adopted child is further psychologically marginalized by being forced to assume a false identity, false family relations and false history, while being forced to abandon his true identity, true family and true family. When it comes time to form adult identity in adolescence, the child is void of true information, true biological and genetic role models and history to develop true identity.

The adopted child is expected to adapt to the false identity, form temporary relationships  with false family members and lacks the (Maslows hierarchy of human needs) developmental building blocks that lead to identity, security and sense of self, have not been mastered in childhood as the adopted child's personality is confused with psychological defense mechanisms, and not true personality development.

The adopted child's assumption of adopted false identity, coping mechanism personality, and the common behavior of continuous adaption to the adoption temporary psychological expectations in the adoption paradox is called adopted child adaption.

In reality all of the forced adaptions that the adopted child has undertaken to please, being agreeable and not causing adoptive home problems will be the future point of contention as the childhood behavior which is expected to continue into adulthood will be the cause of the adopted child's future repulsion. Future repulsion of the adopted child's role, adopted child's coping and compensating and the adopted child's temporary childhood adopted identity will cause the adult adoptee unrelenting anger and strife.

The cognitive dissonance of the adult adoptee will try to disassociate himself and deny the adopted child identity, adopted child adapting behavior and adopted child's complacency and agreeableness to attempt forming a true identity based on biographical information and intentionally dispose of the repulsive adopted childhood of the past.