About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Thursday, January 15, 2015

The sacrifice of Your Child and Your Child's Childhood and Your Child's Life.....

ADOPTEE RAGE!

The Sacrifice of Your Child and Your Child's Childhood
and Your Child's Life...
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Sacrifice is the self-denial and self-abnegation of an individual's own self-liberty, self-satisfaction and self construed comfort in one's life.  

The FALSE perception of a mother, and the truth of what happens to the legally abandoned child as a mother is giving away her child to the "concept of adoption" is not a clear or precise place or space. The truth in giving a child away is relinquishing the child in legal abandonment and the abandoned child becomes an abandoned child ward of the state being entered into the foster care system as a foster child. 

"No Rainbows or Unicorns Here" as an abandoned foster child regardless of the intentions for the future of the possibility of a child adoption.

The sacrifice of a mother's child to adoption is no sacrifice at all, only the obscure and complicated twist of intentions not to parent one's own offspring. 

For no biological mother has the right to give away her child, that also belongs to the child's father, maternal and paternal families, As the maternal and paternal parents and family belong to the newborn child as the child is the member of both families.   

Since slavery and Indentured service is outlawed in the United States, The institution of child adoption gives immoral, unethical and unrealistic expectations to the adopting parents. 

The adoption marketing campaigns such as "forever family" are fueling these adoption misconceptions to expect adopting and owning the entire life of a child beyond the eighteen years of child adoption's legal responsibility. The erasing of the child's name and history is a legal tactic that keeps the child from any paper trail to find his lost identity and family that belongs to the adopted child forever out of reach.

What and who is actually being sacrificed? The human child is thought to be the sacrificial lamb.
The relinquishing mother is sacrificing the child to keep her freedom, the adopting parent is buying human flesh to pretend they are biological parents.
The adopted child is used by humanity to appease the grieving childless parent's loneliness, emotional physical and infertility's psychological injuries. Child adoption to fix a miserable failing marriage out of the new reinforced guilt of a child responsibility. The adopting parent's are essentially gambling on the childhood of an adopted child with the expectation of winning, but loosing in gambling is a 50%/50% risk.

The adopted child is a gross national product and child commodity in the United States where people buy what their heart desires to fulfill the empty spaces where material goods are the best substitute for actual human relationships. Adoption failure rates are created as pleasant where the risks are considered minimal. 

A biological parent does not have the moral right to deal in human flesh as childbirth is no longer considered circumstances of the marriage relationship. The biological child is used, abused and discarded when the childlike adoptive parent's let their greed overcome their morality in buying supposedly available adoptable children at market.

The selling of a child, their parents, identity and culture is the only things a child comes into this life with.  When we take away the only possessions of an individual that are priceless to others, we are left with nothing. What is thought that is sacrificed is a mother's child that she does not entirely own in the first place. If the adopting parent's were truly attempting to provide the child with what they need, the adopted child's parents, family and culture would never be considered to erase, but the erasing of the child's identity is sacrificed to appease the fears and instill ownership of the adopted child for the benefit to adopting parent. As the adopting parent sacrifices nothing but the only possessions of an abandoned child.