About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Saturday, January 17, 2015

Angry Adoptive Mother's Resent Flip the Script


The "Flip The Script" On National Adoption Month

The topic of "National Adoption Month" makes me angry, resentful and agitated at this child marketing campaign. 

I have read many blogs by the angry adoptive mother writers, saying that adoptee's are ruining the festivities of the national adoption celebration with their life destroying adoption experiences. The adoptive mothers want adoptees to ruin something else, not their federal recognition of bring charity one step beyond by saving children from what the adoptive mothers believe are less than ideal. 
Adoptive mother's do not want adoptee's pathetic life stories to impact the "beauty" that they see in taking children away from their biological mothers. The adoptive mother's see "beauty" in their own adoption actions of charity. The adopting mothers want and need the national recognition for being a different type of mother, they want all of the rewards and holidays based on their charitable work to be publicly recognized.  Not made "dirty" by the small percent of adoptees that are not grateful for being adopted and systemic assimilated into "Forever Families". The negative and dark side of adoption adoptivre mother's say "does not belong on our day of glory and recognition's". 

The angry adoptive mother's say that National Adoption Month is not about angry adoptees, nor is it about adopted childhood abuse, adopted child neglect and sexual assault of adopted children., NAM is about the beauty of the adoptive mother's charitable contributions of herself to save a child's life.

If National Adoption Awareness Month is not supposed to be about the promotion of cognitive awareness of all problems associated with adoption
in order to publicly identify these problems within the social context, child welfare and adoption industry's abusing the system and the fall out in the form of destroyed human lives. Awareness campaigns bring the reality of what has, can and does happen to children processed through a broken system that makes child adoption sausage from previously healthy individuals.

Adoptive mothers want recognition for their charity work taken to the extreme into their home, not the adopted child abuse awareness.  What is the answer?
Adopted child abuse awareness day, and the creation of the national adoptive mother award and recognition day........Give them a trophy, a certificate of Valor and a blue ribbon for adoption participation and maybe they will shut up.

As for "Flip the Script" It is working, to bring awareness of the child adoption abuse and advantage taking of adoption agencies, social service agencies and the 10 Billion dollar adoption industry's political lobby and political agenda to keep civil rights away from adoptees and keep the adoptee population in perpetually discriminated against.