The Depravity In Being Adopted
The one word that describes adopted child's existence in the world of the living is Depravity. The adopted child's life that is unpleasant, the life of the adopted child's experience is discounted, and the silent voice of the forever adopted child, if their silence is broken they become invalid, ungrateful and selfish to the society that perpetuates their second class place as the puppet and second choice child in society.
Adopted infant's birth separation trauma is the key to the adopted child's peculiarity and dysfunction. As adoptees are legally sanctioned and owned by their adopters as a master and servant type of forced adoption relationship. Adopted children are the pawns of the wealthy narcissistic sadist that can make worse or brake the damaged adopted child's future, as the adoptee will never achieve full psychological potential.
The intentional psychological damaging effects to the surrendering mother is the single key to her psychological healing that will never be realized.
The adopted child product is overlooked by choice in adopted child studies as the truth from the adopted child's point of view is far too real to accept in human terms, the adopted child is not grateful, more like hateful to the facts of being abandoned, and being adopted. No child would ever choose to be adopted, No child ever wanted to be adopted and most adopted children spend their lives distancing themselves from the world of adoption, not embracing it. The public's avoidance of older adoptees who have been through the cycle of reunion have the ability to look at the larger picture of destruction that adoption paints a picturesque scene of rainbows and unicorns, behind these images are broken disengaged people hiding behind their anger, shame and frustrations. The older adoptee can identify the cost of "two broken people" for the temporary satisfaction of one childless mother.
The childless mother that engages in child adoption for the eighteen year term will eventually come to terms with her disappointment of her own biological child depravity. The biological mother and child will never heal, never become whole and never recover what was taken from them, for the purpose of satisfying the whims of the selfish childless mother's demands.