The Psychology of Self-Sacrificing Adopted Child.
Abandoned Infant's Fear or Stasis Reasoning.
The relinquishment trauma of abandoned infants, coupled with the forced, six months premature self-concept development damages the adopted infant's self concept development, functioning on half of the child's potential, as the full self awareness would have formed naturally in the first six months through genetic maternal bonding that is non-existent and is the missing half of the self from the mother-infant Dyad, in the psyche of the adopted child, that can never be recovered.
The adopted infant completely functions on the infant's perception of the world, people and the physical clues people use to signal the adopted child.
The adopted infant develops their intrinsic psychic and sensing awareness of voices, tones, facial expressions, body language and cycles of behavior signal the infant to feel "fear or stasis" the two feelings the abandoned infant is conditioned to understand. The infant's Heightened awareness of caregiver behavior and environmental ques are necessary for the alien living in a foreign adoptive home to compensate for all that the child is lacking from maternal deprivation and the safety that the maternal bond would have provided.
The sad reality of adoptive mother's who set out in adoption believing that their love will be enough to erase the adopted child's name and history, erasing any tie to the dreaded, purposely vilified and erased biological mother and father.
The Adoption Scapegoat:
The reality that most pregnant women do not intentionally disable or retard their children with alcohol, smoking or take drugs, and the famously reliable maternal mental illness is a poor scapegoat for adopted children's predictable problems, issues coping mechanisms, are all related to being deprived of the human entitlement to their genetic maternal bond, of which they are denied, deprived and broken.
The psychic development grows in the abandoned adopted infant out of necessity to attempt his environment without the needed socialization of the genetic maternal bond. The early development of hypervigilance is a defense coping mechanism as the child has no genetic mirror of himself to relate to the adoptive environment.
Adopting to quickly repair interpersonal relationships, failing marriages, health problems, psychological problems of infertility, stillbirth and neonatal death
always result in a adult adoptee without life skills, psychopathy from adopted child neglect, verbal and physical abuse. The inability to have self esteem comes from abusive, insensitive, non-nurturing and narcissistic adoptive mothers that perpetuate psychopathy and mental strain in adopted children.
Adoptive mothers and parents that hold out to the fantasy that god is providing them adopted children to parent do the greatest damage, having self-ordained themselves to be the adopted child's savior as a christ like entity perpetuate the adopted child's inferiority from illegitimacy and bastard states that the adopted child is a sin in nature and inherently evil in nature, the religious zealots make terrible mistakes in parenting and create psychopath children avoid of human feelings, reasoning and go on to commit murder as trained by their religiously defective psychopathic adoptive mothers.