From where does my adoptee rage originate?
The boring story in the adopted child's plight of trying desperately to please, and not to irritate the easily angered adoptive mother. This the story of this adopted child's existence, existing for the purpose to fulfill the perfect adopted child's role of pleasing the adoptive mother who is the single force that allows the adopted child to stay in the adoptive home. Without the pillar of the adoption industry's adoptive mother, she is the glue that keeps the adopted child in the adoptive home. Without her, there is no adoption or adoptive home. This truth is ingrained in to the compliant mind of the Adopted child. The fact that the adoptive mother holds all of the power over the adopted child's continued existence in the home and through her all acknowledgments come. Without the adoptive mother's preferences, wants, needs and desires that are attempted by the adopted child to satisfy the adoptive mother's wishes, wants and aspirations. Never does the adopted child dare think independently without the adopted mother's blessing, which is counter to the place and role of the adopted child's temporary position in the adoptive family.
For the adopted child to thrive in independence, the adoptive mother must banish, ostracize and kick-out the adopted child from the adoptive family.
Only then is the adopted child become free from the adoption bondage that controls and dominates the life of the adopted child. Adoptee's exist and live under the adoptive mother's control, until the time of intolerance and repulsion, when the adoptive mother essentially will set the caged bird free, and told "Never to Return".