About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Saturday, November 1, 2014

Adopted Child's Acting Out Is Adult Adoptee Making Wrongs Wright


Adopted Child Acting Out Vs. Adult Adoptee Making Wrongs Right 

At what point is a forever adopted child allowed to put themselves first?

To consider their own well-being and mental health healing?  Their own psychological healing that includes reconciliation. When adoption lies and secrets are revealed. When the adoptee can attempt true identity from the adopted child's original legitimate birth certificate and factual family history  information that is kept from adoptee's to keep them from attaining reality.
To reach our true potential without adoptive parent's guilt trips, adoptive mother's failed fantasy and repulsion of the adoptee's life lived in forced denial
on behalf of the parent's safety that is far outside of an adoptee's reality.
The adoptive parent's denial that we have two sets of parents, a genetic family, with parents, siblings, aunts uncles, grandparents, extended family tree and ancestral timeline, the place in this world where we rightfully belong. The unrealistic expectations that are crushed by the adopted child's inability to provide the adoptive parents., The adoptive mother's crushed hopes, dreams and unrealized biological duplicates, from dead, stillborn and unborn biological children that adopted children are commissioned to replace or in their stead.    
.......When will the society that labeled adopted children stigmatized, defective and disreputive babies and utilized to supply the adoption industry say that we have done our duty, are off the hook or our indentured service was adequately served....For eighteen years, thirty years or more, of compliant indentured service? When is the time for adoptee's to get the privilege to become accountable to ourselves? For the hundreds of millions of Baby Scoop Era Adopted Children, who's adoptions were coerced, forced and legal manipulations by authorities who were concerned about their own best interests, the best interests of the adoptive parents and the best interests of the adoption industry.
When will any accountability for the injustices ever be acknowledged that adoptee's can begin to rebuild our lives in truth and reality as legitimate citizens of the united states given the rights that biological children take for granted.
When will adopted children be seen as ordinary people despite the psychological damage from forced adoption into non-biological families that damaged adopted children's ability to live free from the social stigmas that are stamped upon our cold and dead hearts. When will come a time of freedom from the bondage of mental dependence on the conditional adoptive relationships we suffer as forced adopted children. As no child would ever welcome adoption's condemning plight.
The bondage of being owned by adoptive parents to being sold like slaves into marriage to be rid of the adopted child's financial burdens.
The shift from being owned by the adoptive parents straight into the legal ownership of the husband or wife's legal property. There never comes a time when the adopted child will legally belongs to themselves without their adopted name change morphing to yet another name change that belongs to someone else in a legal marriage. When will there come a time for an adopted child's freedom from being adopted.......

Adopted Child Acting Out                          Adult Adoptee Making Wrongs Right 

#1.Wanting personal truth.                     #1. Adoptee's searching.
#2. Adoption Questions                          #2. Adoption Education.
#3. Biological Questions.                        #3. Finding Bio Family.                     #4. Questioning Adoption                       #4. Adoption Repulsion.
#5. Adolescent Changes                         #5. Adult Identity Changes 
#6. Speaking Out                                  #6. Speaking Out Truth

No matter the adopted child or adult adoptee, Society rejects our voice, Words,
opinions and adoption educated point of views due to the nature of truth that we adoptee's speak from. Adopters and general public try to suppress the truth
that we adoptees passionately speak from. Our society has failed us in childhood and in adulthood, for our lives are shredded in pieces where the past and present exist in the present unresolved. When we search find and reunion we step farther from society's biased boundary and the only closure and peace we find is slamming the adoption door shut.