The Facebook Scapegoat By Adoptive Parent's Living In Denial and Denying the Adopted Child Human Rights of Ancestral, Biologic Family & Heritage Rights.
Adoptive parents and adoption society scapegoat blame on social technology and associated websites such as Facebook as solely responsible for an adopted child's untimely connection to their biological family.
The ignorant, arrogant and angry adoptive parent's childish reactionary and blame behavior tells the outside world quite a different story about the adoptive parent's
poor reasoning skills, obvious bad parenting skills that cause the young child so seek out alternatives to their lacking adoptive parent and family situation.
The natural human drive toward ancestral origins that are Inherent needs to know, have or possess knowledge of who the person is and the biological family relationships and connections that are vital to identity formation, self esteem and becoming a productive member of society
the identity needs are essential to the human individuals life.
Adopted children's quest for true identity is a natural need that is denied by the adoptive parent's plan and expectations.
The adoptive parent that changes a child's identity to conceal the truth from the child creates these problems at the start. The legal standing that the child is under age is the only a time frame problem of child ownership. The child will always be looking for their biological family, in public spaces malls, events, as it is a continuous autonomic search by scanning crowds of people on the look-out for a visual match. The great thing about social media is that the life long search actual finds possible results. The adopted child was searching for his biological parents all along throughout childhood, and the adoptive parent's simply did not know or were in denial of this because the subject is taboo.
Even when the adoptive parents take the time to bring up this dreaded topic that humiliates the adopted child, only specific responses from the child are allowed and prompted by the parent's avoidance of the wrong answers. Remember no child ever chose to, or wanted to be an adopted child, they are forced through social systems and never by choice. The adoptive parent's arrogance and anger at the results that the child finally got some concrete answers to his life long quest to know his own identity, the identity that reveals the truth about all things that the adoption lies try to cover up. The parent's anger is that the jig is up, the secret is revealed and adoption is merely a childhood detention for 18 years of living a lie.