About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Tuesday, August 26, 2014

The unplanned Pregnancy and Bad Grandparents


The Unplanned Pregnancy and Bad Grandparents

The primary insult to a female's future, is the discovery of an unwanted pregnancy. The unwanted pregnancy causes many problems, including mental compromise, isolation, perpetual fear and dread of possible rejection of the partner that impregnated her. The role of the non-supportive family, social community, and society's rejection are usually the same social structure that the young woman was dependent on prior to the pregnancy. The family that is too dependent on the community acceptance and the unrealistic fears of being ostracized from the family's social and religious community., This type of social dependence of parents to take sides away from their own children to save face and favor from a hypocritical community that is arrogant enough to expect a parent to brake ties and shun their own child over the conception of their grand child. Bad parents that live by religious tyranny, the hate based parent labels their own child damaged, shuns them and feels shamed by them through the religious community's opinion. Instead of parenting their child through love, with support, nurturing, and continued guidance is the family that sticks together through the joyous occasion of a new life growing inside of your daughter, that grandchild is the grandparent's joy. 
The psychologically punishing and condemning parent
that views appearance and public sentiment as more important than their own flesh and blood family will always live a superficially miserable existence of regret for their negative actions against their own offspring.
 The innocent child the good mother who takes her responsibility for a new life seriously. A good parent would embrace their child's fragile state with support and guidance as pregnancy is the only form of family and generation growth. The strong woman that emerges from the religiously dependent, politically motivated parent is usually psychologically compromised from the parent's abuse, and being ostracized from perpetrating parents gives the pregnant mother the freedom to live her life away from such disreputable examples of human beings.    
What brings some parents to brake their own family relationships over religious and social issues?   
Understanding that much of the social structure is a flawed reasoning by the ignorant community that the young is better off leaving. The pregnant girl's parents dependent on other's opinions, appearances, and the unimportant community that lives by vanity and humiliation, is a community that no child should be exposed to.   The unwanted pregnancy can become the saving grace of a woman who has no hope, as the new born child is the essence of hope weather his parents are married or not, a child's legitimacy as a person depends on the mother's maternal investment in her own child.