About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Friday, June 13, 2014

The Stress Based Personality of Adopted Children Learned From Questionable Adoptive Environments


The Adopted Child's Lifelong Consequences of Intolerable Stress

The newborn infant forcefully taken from his biological mother begins life in extreme trauma that becomes the abandoned child's foundation for all future life experience. 

The stresses experienced by the abandoned adopted infant, become the child's "normal order of routine". The child can Identify "Stress" as a pattern the child is aware of. The experience of stress does not lessen in severity, reaction, and compensation and recovery "is a normal action-reaction" in the child's daily life existence. The child's stress based foundation is the first experience, continuing episode experience, that becomes part of who the child is, expectation of stress, anticipation of stress, and later "reenacting the stress based experiences" in the child's attempt to make sense of the abuse.
The child never masters how no not react to stress, but does become hypervigilent in anticipating ques from the adoptive parents behaviors on when the child might expect stress to occur. 
The questionable, unstable, narcissistic and substance using adoptive parents unpredictable and inconsistent behaviors keep the adopted child on perpetual alert for psychological and physically abusive threats.     
The future Adult Adoptee emerges unchanged, having failed to master the forced stress adoptive environment. The adult adoptee lives the perpetual continuation of the stress based adoptive home. The adult adoptee is a nervous, hyper-vigilant anticipating the next act of violence or injustice, and recreates the abuse cycle in adult relationships, of which he plays the victim, the role is cast in stone and will never change as the adoptee's foundation from birth is imprinted on the adoptee's identity for the duration of his existence as a vehicle for trauma abuse and being used by other people who have control over the adoptee.   


Early childhood stress and neurobiological effects

En.Wikipedia.org/childhood/stress and neurobiological effects/
Early Childhood is a critical period in a child’s life that includes ages from birth to five years old. Children are constantly developing, physically and emotionally. Stress can be beneficial by helping children develop skills needed to adapt to new situations and are helpless to deal with danger of abuse, intimidation by adoptive parent's control and domination. However, there is a point where prolonged stress becomes harmful and can lead to serious health effects. Although stress is a factor for the average human being, it can be a molding aspect in a young child’s life. Stress can beneficial by helping children develop skills needed to adapt to new situations and deal with dangerous and intimidating situations. Stress is caused by internal or external influences that disrupt an individual’s normal state of well-being. These influences are capable of affecting health by causing emotional distress and leading to a variety of physiological changes Internal stressors include physiological conditions such as hunger, pain, illness or fatigue. Other internal sources of stress consist of shyness in a child, emotions, gender, age and intellectual capacity. External stressors include threat of separation from adoptive family, chronic exposure to adoptive family conflict, domestic violence, abuse, divorce, poverty, natural disasters, and adults’ negative discipline techniques. Additional external stressors include forced removal from biological mother, such as maternal depravity, neglect and abuse, adoptive parent neglect, abuse and substance abuse, lack of maternal drive, posttraumatic stress and psychosis of adoptive parents. Stress is an inevitable part of child adoption compensation. Human beings experience stress early, even before they are born. A certain amount of stress is normal and necessary for survival. A few stressors can be manageable for young children, however, there is a point where prolonged stress becomes harmful and can lead to serious health effects. When stress builds up in early childhood, neurobiological factors are affected. In turn, hormone cortisol levels are uncontrollable and cannot be brought back to normal ranges, the biological changes in childhood become permanent decompensating affects as in high blood pressure in children, severe startle responses, Bacterial infections, virus, autoimmune diseases.