"The Fantasy Bond" of Adoptive Parenting
The Fictional Friend in the Fantasy Bond Is always Siding With the Adoptive Parent. __________________________________________
The Narcissistic Coping Mechanism of Fantasy Bond
The fantasy bond that is utilized by many psychologically injured, narcissistic personality disordered, physically and mentally abusive adoptive mothers, creates fictional false connection to the adopted child. As time passes the Problems in relating to the adopted child begin to escalate and expand as the adoptive mother's lack of maternal driven feelings and lack of maternal bond connectedness leaves the child suffering from neglect without human interaction. The adoptive parent's Inability to relate to other people on a mutual level or mature level of relating to others. The adoptive mother is overwhelmed by mounting stress, unrelenting discontinuity and all consuming pressure that is felt toward the unassociated adopted child does not go away.
The Fantasy Bond