About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Emotional Abuses in Adoption Reasoning

ADOPTEE RAGE!

Emotional Abuses In Adoption Reasoning
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Because child adoption is not In the best interest of the child, and predictable damages occur at all stages of a child's normal development is morphed into dysfunctional coping defense mechanisms in adulthood and compromised well-being of life.

The Publicly Acknowledged Adoption Misconceptions,

Legal Child Abandonment Reasons:

1. Too Young, Late teen marriage were the norm.
   When raising a child, a mother grows in                  experience. Being a mother brings responsibility        and selfless behavior.

2. Financial Security, Financial resource opportunities     fluctuate and change throughout peoples lives in       the U.S., Financial security is a temporary state.
    and financial security guarantees nothing.
    Current Financial Wealth belonging to husband         and wife may not last through their lifetime, A         single healthcare emergency can bankrupt the         health Insured family, to loose their home. 
    
    Parent's Income, savings and inheritance does not     pay the children, children are expected to make       their own living, pay for their own college.

3. Giving your child opportunities through adoption,
    means nothing, adoption guarantees nothing and     statistics of adopted children making it to college       are a brutally low reality. 

4. The Adoption Change of Mind       
    The 25% to 35% of adopted children that are sent     back in adoption failure, dissolution, annulment.       The adoptive parents are relieved of liability and       the child suffers more psychological disturbances.
    The worst situation possible for the child, adoption     dissolution child is Re-Homed over the internet,         outside of legal process and child safety measure.

5. Separating a child from it's mother at birth.
    Primal wound to the child's foundation of                 socialization, destabilization and psychological
    damage to the infant through adulthood. Loss of 
    true Identity and failure to integrate socially. 

6. "Because She Loved You" She abandoned you to       childhood foster care and eventually adoption.
     No adopted child that I have ever met will buy          this story. It is a fantasy told by the adoptive            mother to diminish her own guilt and boost her        own self esteem. The phrase does nothing for          adopted children except make them act like they      believe it for fear of being slapped in the face,
     and punished for defiance by the dominating            adoptive mother. Who also says things like "she  
     was/Is a slut" "Got knocked up" or "Because you      were such a bad child your own mother didn't          want to raise you".