About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Friday, May 16, 2014

BLAME The Adopted Child!


Blame The Adopted Child!

In the United States, controversial topics like the damage to the adopted child from adoption is ignored and yes-men type psychology research is funded and produced to benefit the the buyer's ego and self satisfaction and reduced guilt in the Adoption Industry's business transactions with adopting parents. When the child product becomes unsatisfactory over time, the adopting parents can be released from financial liability by re-homing the kid over the internet, Everyone is doing it. As I search the web, kids popping up dead all over the country too.
Yet no laws, no public outcry, no one seems to care.
Better dead, than 18 years of child support payments?


"The Blame Of The Adopted Child" has become a common frame of reference in the United States.
As no parent, attorney, adoption agency or psychologist dare put the blame where it belongs.

The adopted child is responsible for providing a grateful human replica of "the child that could have been" and "the lost to death." 

When the child fails to fulfill his part of the bargain
he is to blame 

The adopted child receives the narcissist's left overs, the scraps of affection that were not completely used up on someone else that was more deserving. What is left over or what remains un-used from nurturing if we equate nurturing to time spending of a mother giving affection to a child, nephew or grandchild. Scraps of affection are completely useless when not whole, intact and genuine.