About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Wednesday, April 16, 2014

How To Talk To Relatives From Borderline to Narcissism and The Dysfunctional Adoptive Family

ADOPTEE RAGE!

Article "How to talk to relatives" 
Applied to the Adoptive Dysfunctional Family

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LINK:http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/matter-personality/201209/how-talk-relatives-about-family-dysfunction

By David M. Mullen, M.D.

How to Talk to Relatives about Family Dysfunction

Recalcitrant relatives have ways to derail constructive family problem solving
First, everyone fears that they will hear something about themselves that is negative. Some do not want to face up to or admit to anything they may have done wrong. If they are already feeling guilty about their past behavior, they may expect they will be unjustly blamed or misunderstood or humiliated. Sometimes discussions about family dynamics elicit angry outbursts or lead to an emotional cut off or the silent treatment. Some may even lead to violence.