About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Thursday, January 23, 2014

Adopted Children's Sensory Processing Disorder Excuse to Drug Kids

ADOPTEE RAGE!

The Recent Dangerous to Adopted Children Medical Term Sensory Processing Disorder, Excuse to Drug Kids...
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Sensory Processing Disorder of Adopted children and adult adoptees is not a new license to drug adopted children! In-fact
the looping of (SPD) with ADHD is a dangerous connection for the future brain damage, brain chemical dependency and brain compensation overload will deny the future well being of adopted children's corrupted by drugs brains. The ADHD speed drugs corruption alters the chemical make-up of the brain connections, causing further brain connection damage and dysfunction.
Too much self-centered parenting, ignorance of the infant's needs. The adoptive parent's denial of the primal mother-child-bond and the expectation of a normal biological parent's infant or child's behavior is an unrealistic expectation as the adoptive relationship is secondary to the infant's relationship with his biological parent and the infant can not understand why his biological mother is not with him. The displaced infant has had many other temporary carers leading up to the adoption.
Yet the infant is still expecting his biological mother to appear and compromising to be fed. Due to the many carers the infant's depressed state grows the infant does not cry to initiate hunger.
The infant regresses without the trusted biological mother's interactions, the infant languishes in despair of his absent mother. All other interactions with the infant are strictly compromise on the infant's behalf and not a growing, thriving relationship. The lack of genuine infant interaction with the substitute mother is seen by the adoptive mother as resistance.
The adoptive mother emotionally hurt by the infant's lack of response and becomes emotionally distances herself from the depressed infant. The mother's hurt morphs into anger toward the infant which becomes a cycle of ignoring-anger-resolve. The adoptive mother may enter a phase of depression, if the adoptive mother has experienced a stillbirth or infertility, the infant can become a daily reminder of her own dysfunctions.
 The infant's lack of awareness and vocal engagement lead to the lack of the child being stimulated including the infant's lack of initiated needs related responding. The cycle of ignoring the child and the child ignoring the substitute parent leads to lack of relationship compared to biological infants relating to their parent relationships at the same ages. The missing stimulation, the infant's depressive state and failure to respond to appropriate ques causes the infant's brain not to form new connections from daily experiences, does not thrive and may become frequently sick with infections. As the depressed state will tax the infants fragile immune system, without the benefit of breast feeding by the biological mother's natural boost the infant's immune system.  There are too many losses to the infant that is deprived of the needed, necessary and satisfying relationship between the biological mother-infant-bond.
To expect that adoption is the same as a biological infant-mother bond is a self deceiving denial of the facts of childbirth.

The adopted parent's denial behavior is a serious contributing factor the cause of the disorder in adoptive children.

The status quote of brilliant medical minds is to be  corrupted by money, fame and prestige. The utilization of dangerous speed drugs that effects a child by slowing the thinking, slowing down behavior, causing chemical dependency and changes a thriving brain into a slow to respond brain in the delicate and striving to compensate brains of adopted children. These biological changes can not be reversed as the slow brain makes connections under false and chemically based conditions. The chemical conditions under which the brain tries to compensate fail. The outcome is a brain that is now hard wired as the hard wiring of a person who has been addicted to methamphetamines, this person can no longer function normally in society and becomes a dependent on social services or the prison system.