About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Sunday, December 1, 2013

The Destabilization Of Adopted Children

                             The Destabilization of Adopted Children

The word destabilization can be applied to a wide variety of contexts such as attempts to mentally undermine adopted children by family or assert parental control. In psychological context brainwashing and psychological abuse is used to disorient and disarm the victim. For example, in the context of family bullying, destabilization applied to the victim may involve:
  • failure to acknowledge good work, progress and value in the child's efforts.
  • parental inconsistency of rules, responsibility and punishments. 
  • removal from friends, access, and freedom based on false irresponsibility. 
  • repeated reminders of blunders, nit-picking, and humiliating the child.
  • setting up to fail.
  • moving the goalposts without telling the victim
  • persistent attempts to demoralise the victim.

Perception of the Destabilized Adopted Child

The adopted child lives in a perpetual state of nervous anxiety in anticipation of future expected events that are predictable and  materialize as the common pattern of domestic violence.
The adopted child lives in perpetual fear of the adoptive parent's unpredictable behavior. Dramatic exaggerated overreactions to ordinary parent child interaction, the non-serious is reinterpreted misinterpretations. 
in the view of constant threatening behavior of intimidation and instigator of arguments that escalate into violence.   
to punishment and causes the child to live in a perpetual state of nervous anxiety and fear of the adoptive parent's next episode of discontent, maltreatment and explosive narcissistic rage.