Surviving the Holiday With Narcissistic Sabotage of Triangulation
The Christmas day was met with panic attacks, anxiety and the overwhelming crippling memories of past holiday miseries. As usual struggling to maintain normality without the attendance of parties and invites, I made it to the calm big day. When my own
offspring, manipulated by the narcissist to bring the bomb that should be responsible as my reminder that I am a bad person, to upset me or create tension. I was immediately able to identify the action, first as "the last word"., Then after consulting the Wikipedia encyclopedia of psychological manipulation I narrowed the malice driven action down to narcissistic "Triangulation".
The word that is the most applicable, common and predictable to the estranged relationship with the adoptive family and the narcissistic mother's "window" that all must talk through mother to communicate with each other. This obvious dysfunctional game that I refuse to play anymore, I was forced to play on Christmas day.