The Chemical Processes In Natural Mothers Can Not Be Faked!
The chemical metamorphosis of biological changes are instinctive processes in pregnancy, birth and post partum. The changes are essential tools provided by the mother's body beyond the biological support of the pregnancy. These chemical tools are only activated and active during pregnancy, birth and nurturing. The chemicals provide the mother's psychological and physical motivation of parental investment in the child.
The chemical changes effecting the mother's biology are automatic and primal responses to the pregnancy.
The primal urges and knowledge come from the mother's conscious and unconscious connection to her child.
The mother's automatic knowledge of how to create a nurturing environment and her mental and physical behavior is instinctive in regard to the child as the center of focus. The change of attention away from husband or partner, and away from the mothers other children is met with resistance, envy, jealousy and anger by the disregarded family members. This is the natural role of the biological mother's chemical changes in the protection and dedication to her helpless infant, that is a biological extension of herself.
In post birth adoption the infant is given to a substitute mother
that is not biological, physiological or psychologically attached to the infant. The substitute mother is not emotionally dedicated although she may have signed an agreement to nurture the child, she is not motivated biologically. She is motivated by want in her desire to possess the child. The child does not belong to her genetics, which will come into play after the newness wears off in the new mother's reality. The post adoption depression phase of the psychology of adoption. The adoptive mother does not have an inherent investment in her new child and will not put the child's needs or place above her husband or existing children. Adoption is a second best scenario for an orphan, and a deplorable breech of humanity to separate a mother from her child.