About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Thursday, August 15, 2013

Bad Adoptive Parents Vision of Perfection

ADOPTEE RAGE!

Bad Adoptive Parents

Not Another Reference To The Returned Russian Adoption!

Adopted Parents in the media are always free from blame
no matter the circumstances. The Adopted child is the
convenient scapegoat for all wrongdoing and evil behavior.
 In Reality the adopted child is a product being sought through
the buying power of greedy American consumers.
Trans-racial and cultural international adoption studies and outcomes proves negative outcomes in adult adoptees.
The usual adoption of a non-orphaned child is based on greed
and selfish need by adopting parents. The child who's parents
are not dead is not in need of new parents. If children were
given non-biased legal representation outside of the adoption
triad, Many questions would be asked in inquiry of the facts.
Adopting parents can legally buy children and return them for
being inadequate in mental or physical health, or failure to bond.

The assessment of the adopting parent's parenting styles and expectations that are not fitting the mold of the mid to upper class American lifestyles.
The vision of the perfect child and what it means to be obedient children is not a realistic expectation of any child. The real life
of a child is their development of independence through the nurturing and assistance of loving parents. The pipe dreams of adopting parents is physically and mentally not something that can be expected. Can not be enforced or demanded. As most
adopters want a baby, and the child to remain an infant forever
in the ideal of the adopter.
The objectification of adopted children adopted by narcissistic mothers is common place and expected maltreatment by these
poor examples of parents.
The procedure of erasing a child's identity and creating a false
identity where adopters force the child to adhere to the new set
of expectations. The adopted child will submit to the pseudo identity until the period of independence and identity building,
known as adolescence. This period is where adopting parents find resistance in there adopted child, when the child attempts to assert themselves in to adulthood. The adopting parents simply can not accept all the work they have attempted and the child becomes who they were all along. This is mutiny and will not be tolerated! Nature will always prevail over adoption's nurture, and the adopting parents will fight the dual personality to the death. The adopting parents refuse to allow the true person to emerge despite all the financial liability and efforts to change the child into the vision of who they wanted the adopted child to be.
AS the adopted child is bound by their genetic biology and eventually will allow that personality to emerge inspite of the threats of banishment by the adopting parents.