About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Monday, July 22, 2013

Religious Abuse of Adopted Children

ADOPTEE RAGE!

The Religious Abuse of Adopted Children
American Adopted Children are not only indoctrinated into foreign and false family culture, the religious extremism is the
family who believes the Christian bible as absolute. These same American culture concerns other religious extremism as fanatical and dangerous to the world population. However all religions that segregate the chosen few are a dividing factor of world peace.
The basic Christian beliefs and judgment of all others outside
the church is the foundation in hypocrisy to adopting parents of unmarried offspring. The child not conceived in a marriage bed
is the perpetual bastard of the church. For most adoptive parents who pick and choose what aspects of religion to utilize
in the benefit, and what to ignore in their lives. Although nothing about the actual religion is learned or passed down in a form of applicable understandably to the adoptee child. The parent is never honest or truthful in conveying the personal religious truth to the young. The parent uses all leverage to control the non biological child who is a foreign liability to the family. As from the beginning the adopted child is not blood and
will not submit to the same type of domination of the bio child.
The non biological child is an alien to an adopting family., The adopted child does not read the new parents unsaid, gesture and attitudes, as their biological children also possess and know.
The adoptive parents believe the child is inferior in genes and development, And the adopted child will be treated as an inferior
and perpetual inability to survive in the world without constant parental intervention and assistance. The actual creation of a population of Special Needs individuals who were capable but
through adoptive parenting maltreatment are mentally defect.
The religious indoctrination of vulnerable young children into living lives filled with spiritual fear, set up to fail and eternal punishment. While the adopting parents have absolutely no respect for the culture, religion and philosophy of the child's family or tribal affiliation, They will attempt to erase forever the culture from the child's life. The Child will now become what the adoptive parents vision of a "special",more suitable and respectable form of religious belief in the comfort zone of the adopting parents. To take any and all individuality from the adopted child and strip him of his culture and humanity. To provide the blank slate child for a parent to create their own
reality is an unfortunate denial that the child existed as a person and an individual before the adoption. It is commonly presumed that adopting babies provides these blank slates. This is the furthest from the truth, as babies remember their existence and their mothers prior to relinquishment and adoption. To assume the blank slate and live a life in denial and indoctrination will only serve to divide the parent and adoptee at age of majority and beyond.
As an adopted child, I remember the adoptive parents fighting about going to church on Sunday morning. Dad falling asleep in church would enrage mother, The fight would resume after church. The hateful things the minister would say about people was not right in my heart, I went from church to new religion searching but never finding truth or philosophy within the white culture of religion. I found only cruelty, division and hypocrisy, never did I find solace. Until one day I went to a Pow Wow, and
from the minute I arrived it felt like I was home. It turns out that I am a 16 generation SC & NC Cherokee. The real clues about who we are come from what you can and can not stand,
the core of your being is absolute.

(Cited Wikipedia.org/Child Abuse/Religious Abuse/)
Religiously based psychological abuse of children is a growing area of interest in the psychological and sociological community. It can take the form of using teachings to subjugate children through fear, or imposing heavy indoctrination such that the child is taught only the beliefs and/or points of view of their particular sect (or even just that of their caregivers) and all other perspectives are stifled or kept from them. The beliefs are taught as absolute truth, with no way of ever questioning them. 
Psychologist Jill Mytton describes this as crushing the child's chance to form a personal morality and belief system, making them utterly reliant on their religious system and/or parents. They never learn to critically reflect on information they receive. Similarly, the use of fear and a judgmental environment (such as the concept of Hell) to control the child can be traumatic.