About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Saturday, June 15, 2013

Search For Roots Is the Only Real Feelings An Adoptee Can Depend On As Natural Reality, Why Adoptee's Search for their Identity


The Search For Biological Parent Is the Only Real Drive an
Adoptee Can Depend On As the Natural Reality.

The Drive is the only basic biological reality for Adoptees.
All other inner information created through emotional suppression can not be depended on as it is all fabricated.
Living a dual personality, the truth of who we are gets shuffled
around inside us as we loose control of our personality and forget who was us and where the line of deception began and ended. Our vigilant compliance as adopted children is done out of necessary survival. And when we are free we feel still enslaved to the persona that is expected of us. The life of deception does not end at 18 years old as we have become the slave of the phony personality. Breaking these chains is psychologically demanding and we have to come to terms with
living lies. When we want to heal from this malpractice, we have to come to terms with the fact that we weren't adopted to become our true selves. We were adopted to be the object and personification of the adopted mother's wants and demands.
Some of us will never find the courage to conquer this unnatural
me, and will go through life in self hatred of who we are not.
Suicide, mental hospitals and prisons are a great escape from the self loathing we feel. To ignore the fact that our natural identity has been hijacked and we are left with the grim reality of who we have become. Being intentionally held back striving for the possibilities we could have been fills us with anger, helplessness and the feeling of being forcefully stuck where they want...To be dependent, mentally relying upon others as we do not have the self worth to make any intelligible decisions. We are societies failure to have any worth beyond providing entertainment to our adoptive parents. This is why we were purchased in the first place, to give the adoptive parent happiness, Although this only provides us with grief and self hatred. To some Adoptees providing for the needs of the adoptive parent is not satisfying and causes us to hate ourselves for why we have allowed this to continue beyond our contract expiration.  Many of us are brainwashed with fear and trust nothing about ourselves like what we think or dream about.
We know that our hopes and dreams will always disappoint
to the level of incapacitate and numbness. The natural feelings of curiosity can help us to understand were in this world we might belong and confuse us more. But this secret hope is at  the core of every human being that has been separated from their roots. Just thinking about who and where we are from is a hope inspiring thought pattern, that is natural to everyone and can be depended on as real. The inspiring feelings lead us to take that chance of a first baby step of hope, in the secrets kept from us that keep us mentally incarcerated servants and slaves to our adopters. Have you ever thought about why they don't want us to have the dignity of our identity? Because we will be forever mentally free from our captors, by simple information.
The freedom is a feeling that is new to adoptees that the general public takes for granted, but if they were denied who they are would be a different story...Public Outcry!