I stumbled across this post this AM and was strongly
affected on how biological fathers regard their daughters.
I was dumbfounded and felt significant lacking inside to
understand how the other side lives in biological splendor.
How a biological father worries about how his child will be
treated by her future husband, and the precious personal and unique identity he has worked so vigilant to form, groom and grow in her. I naturally felt jealous, anger at my own
parent lacking and sad for myself for my pitiful state. But
this reality is for children who's parents have a commitment
to their lives, unlike Adopted Children. This is what defines
our most inner being, the awareness that bio children will grow up to be individuals and adopted children are forever objects.