About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Thursday, June 13, 2013

Adoptees Raised by Narcissistic Adoptive Mothers


ADOPTEE'S Raised By Narcissistic Adoptive Mothers

The complexed problems of Adopted children with all of the
expected emotional Issues that are common in the Adoptees
detachment of the replacement relationship.
The addition of an Adoptive Narcissistic Mother is an unfortunate prevalence and standard among U.S. adopters. The narcissistic adoptive mother has a personality defect that becomes seriously damaging to the child's forming identity, self worth, personality and psychological well being. The combination of the two deficits
brings the risk percentages of child abuse extremely high.

The narcissist can get their ultimate needs met by buying a child
for themselves. In the eyes of the narcissist The adopted child is
their doll, toy and they own it. They bought a childhood that will last forever in their perspective. They will never grow up and need constant correction to prevent the child from developing
independence. The Adoptee is the object to supply temporary happiness, when the narcissist feels need or thinks about it.
The "Object" Adopted child is stupid and should rely on the wisdom of the worldly parent for all thinking and decisions.
The Adopted child is discouraged by parents from learning, yet punished for poor grades in school. The inconsistantcy from the parents is confusing as the "Rules" are constantly changing and punishment from breaking the changing rules is dependable.
It seems as though the adoptive narcissist parent looks for a reason to punish the child as a way to vent their anger at the
husband or life in general. Beat the scapegoat and feel better.
The Object has no experience, no opinion and no educational
knowledge that can be relied on. When the Adoptee attempts
to interact with views that are unacceptable to the parent, she
will be slapped in the mouth...As a reminder that the child was Adopted for her opinions. Any legitimate knowledge coming from the Adoptee  will be ignored, sarcastically questioned and strongly invalidated to the extent of humiliation. The Adoptees
primary and secondary education, worldly knowledge, specific topic studied, informational learning and cognition all mean nothing ....The strange belief concept that the child's intelligence is an act of insubordination and disobedience, attempting to be smarter than the parent is a contemptible offence.
The Adoptee's behavioral compliance will be rewarded if she keeps a pleasant attitude, maintain a proper appearance and keeps her mouth shut.  The Puppet Adoptive Child can never win against the narcissist, the only way to gain some peace is
to avoid the narcissist.