About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Sunday, May 5, 2013

The Perpetual Child The Adoptee Never Grows UP


The Adoptee is a perpetual child, Never seen as an adult.

When parents are considering child adoption, there are many personal reasons. Most of the parent reasoning is to promote their self Interest, indulgence and narcissistic self promotion.
None of these selfish reasoning justifies adoption placement,  but money buys the influence of adoption social workers....

The adopting parent is essentially purchasing the childhood years of a person. Studies from the past sixty years has proven
the paradox of adoption, that ends in reunion. Unfortunately for the adoptee, the psychological, medical and identity damage can not be reversed. The adoptee does not benefit from the adoption transaction.

The adoptive parent
can only reflect on the baby, toddler and growing years.
The time frame of the innocent child. When the child was unaware of the dynamics and concepts of adoption. This the when the child was free from the stress and realities that adoptees begin to comprehend the extent of their problems adolescence. They begin to realize what has happen to them,
but lack the tools, financial ability and maturity to deal with.
They try to divert themselves with disruptive and dangerous behavior  instead of dealing with the problem of their identity.
The adoptive parent expects certain answers to questions that
keep the wound of adoption open and festering. The adoptive parents will not discuss this, and to push the issue will threaten
the adoptee's current living arrangements. The adoption paradox is not open for discussion to the adoptee.