About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Friday, May 10, 2013

Gender Based Parenting and expectation Failure, "Every Mistake a Parent Makes is permanently recorded in and on their children"

ADOPTEE RAGE!

How Gender Based Indoctrination and Expectation Failure

In the U.S. Gender based parenting is practiced and is the cultural norm. This NORM is both discriminating, cruel and damaging to the psyche of the child, future adult and parent.
Parents expect a masculine boy or a feminine girl to emerge
out of childhood. Although many gender variations exist and
the possible outcomes are many.

The paradox of the parents behavior and the expectations for
the specific two stereotypes of masculine-boy or feminine-girl
to emerge without effects of the parent actions, lifestyles or conduct during a child's formative years.
In the year 2013, The parent is still in denial of their own behavior and how that behavior impacts the baby through
six year old child. U.S. Parents are not held responsible for,and deny liability of their own behaviors that negatively impact the children.
"Every mistake a parent makes, is permanently recorded on and in their children".
The common reality of American parents is the intentionally forgotten memory and denial of any supporting factual evidence that their adult children present.
When a parent can not admit the truth of their behavior, and deny responsibility for their conduct during the formative years of a childhood. The child of an emotional and physically abusive parent are the most forgiving of them. So what is the advantage to denying responsibility to the victim and witness of the childhood injustice? The continued silence continues to injure and damage the core psyche of the now adult child. The only way to promote healing is to acknowledge the injustice, admit fault and negligent behavior of the parent. To admit you were wrong in circumstances during the childhood will begin the cycle of reconciliation, acknowledgment and forgiveness.