About Adoptee Rage

Statistics Identify large populations of Adoptees in prisons, mental hospitals and committed suicide.
Fifty years of scientific studies on child adoption resulting in psychological harm to the child and
poor outcomes for a child's future.
Medical and psychological attempts to heal the broken bonds of adoption, promote reunions of biological parents and adult children. The other half of attempting to repair a severed Identity is counselling therapy to rebuild the self.

Saturday, April 6, 2013

The Adoptee's Experience an Epiphany of their Adoption Realization

Adoptee Rage    When The Reality of Your Adoption Hits...

Epiphany: The experience of Sudden, Striking, Realization.

Adoption Realization: A triggered event, exposing suppressed
                               emotional feelings not before expressed
                               about being adopted, given-away., A
                               mother surrendering her child forever.,
                               The child victim sold to strangers. What
                               happen to that child and mother. This
                               emotional action of grieving for the child
                               and mother at the most basic human level.


Adoptee's can deny their adoption experience as long as they can, until this emotionally triggered event, cracks them wide open., This is an uncontrolled emotional melt down, that has included various aspects individual to the Adoptee's adoption.
The fact that you were stolen from your mother's trusting, loving and safe environment. Child is stolen after the birthing process which is forever an assault upon human dignity.
Animals are never separated from mothers at birth for risk of death to the newly born. A stolen child can never be repaired with the richest of prospective adoptive parents. The newborn's rejection of the New mother, causes the new mother to reject
the newborn infant. As the New mother is not naturally inclined to the baby as the baby's real mother's natural response and awareness to the child's needs. The new mother is not aware nor has she gone through the pregnancy year with the child growing inside her. This New mother is flawed chemically and emotionally fragile to her own needs. The rejection cycle for new mom is perpetual, she feels rejected and she ignores the baby's needs. The new mother's psychological problems and insecurities grow larger in the cycle of rejection to the point that the baby submits out of hunger. To the new mother, the baby is her possession that she owns. The underlying fear that the real mother could take the baby back, keeps the new mother from
true emotional commitment. Due to the fact that the child is not natural to the new mother,  The new mother will have emotional regard to the child as a possession that she owns.
 
Read more on Adoption Realization's from Adoptee's stories
AT:                    
Lost Daughters: Round Table/emerging from the fog
www.thelostdaughters.com/emerging from the fog